Allison ([info]fabfourfan65) wrote,
2006-01-24 16:11:00
  • Mood: cynical
GG is still legally married. He says the papers have all been filed and it's a matter of the judge signing everything. Earlier he'd told me it's been a long, drawn out process as they own a lot of property together (which I've confirmed via public records) and that's where I noticed no dissolution of marriage papers and mortgage docs from last summer with 'husband and wife' as they refinanced two properties (both addresses checked out from what information he's given me).

I dated before my divorce was final. Hell, I dated before even filing the papers so why does it bug me about him? Everything he's told me checks out.

Thoughts?

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Anonymous

January 24 2006, 21:33:23 UTC 6 years ago

Public Records

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[info]fabfourfan65

January 24 2006, 21:58:17 UTC 6 years ago

Email response from GG when I said I needed to think about this:

I understand your apprehension. I would be cautious too. But, I am true to my word, and we are done. I did not seek you with the intention of getting-off. Rather, it has been two years since we were legally separated. Yes legally!

I have decided it is time to seek another relationship where I can love again, share, and be happy. She just dragged her feet to piss me off.

I hope you come back! I really want you to!

Anonymous

January 25 2006, 01:19:42 UTC 6 years ago

I would say keep it light and friendly. Because they have children and property together, it is very possible that it's taken this long. And like you said, everything he's said heretofor has been true, so I would give him the benefit of the doubt about this. She could very well have thought if she dragged it out long enough, maybe he would change his mind.

I say keep getting to know him.

[info]takemylifeback

January 25 2006, 03:30:45 UTC 6 years ago

Well, unfortunately I've seen one spouse or the other drag his/her feet just for the sake of being difficult. And it bugs you because it IS a (relatively) big thing, something he *probably* should have mentioned it to you. I'm not really sure how to verbalize it (my brain is complete mush tonight), I have to agree with you: it would bug me, too. Not sure if it helps -- I'm just saying.

I agree: keep getting to know him, take it slow, play it by ear, and listen to your gut.
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